Life is an adventure.
Sadly, many of us don’t treat it that way.
Think of your life as a game. Games are designed to be an adventure.
Your life can be an adventure too if you treat it that way. Does it mean that you’ll always have a good time? No. There are times of struggle and setbacks but we keep on playing those games because that’s what we like about games.
Games have taught me many lessons on how to live a life.
Games are addictive.
Addiction does not have to be bad all the time. In fact, each one of us is addicted to one thing or another. Writers are addicted to writing. Singers are addicted to singing and so on.
Addiction in itself is not a bad thing. If you’re obsessed with something and you don’t let it destroy you or control you then I would call it a healthy addiction.
On the other hand, if we let out job or business destroy other parts of our life like health, relationships, etc. or we let it control us, it can turn into an unhealthy addiction.
Every game has a mission or at least a hidden objective behind it. Without it, there will be no purpose of the game.
In the same way, we all need to have missions in our life. The missions may change or develop as life passes by.
Weak objectives will result into boring or unfulfilled life whereas strong objectives will make our life purpose driven.
There are side quests in life too but it’s up to us if we want to pursue them or not. These side quests are a representation of all the things we want to do in life. The important part is to remember that whether we complete our side quests or not, it should not affect our main objective(s) in life.
Most games are designed to be challenging. If a game is too easy, it won’t be too long before the player quits the game.
If there are no obstacles or enemies, there is nothing to master in the game. Gamers keep on playing a game because they fall in love with the grind.
We need challenges in life. Growth only happens when there are obstacles to overcome. Life will become too boring if we get everything we wanted without any effort. Embrace the challenges.
Our education system has conditioned us into believing that failure is bad. Thanks to games that teach us that failure is okay. All you have to do is retry.
Life is like a game. Sure, there are opportunities in life that can be missed but there is no dead end. No matter how much we fail, there is always a way to move forward in life.
Every time we fail in defeating a level, boss or enemy – we learn new tactics that we can use next time.
Gamers who succeed are the ones who persevere during the hard times. Life is exactly the same. You fail. You learn. You experiment. You repeat until success.
Every time we overcome an obstacle, games reward us in some way. These rewards give us a morale boost or resources to continue our journey.
Life is no different. If you’re getting paid for your job, then you’re getting resources to live your life.
However, we need to claim some rewards. Gratitude and celebration are the rewards that we need to give ourselves for our efforts or results. These rewards feed our soul.
Progress is one of the core motivation of life. If we don’t track or see our progress, our soul will get drained of energy. Reward yourself and feed your soul.
Many games allow us to customize our character. We can change their attributes, upgrade their skills, provide accessories or dress them however we want to.
We can treat ourselves as an avatar too. Imagine a greater representation of yourself which is your avatar. What skills does it have? What values does it hold?
The best part is that we can even customize our goals. Games have their own objective while your objective in your life is up to you.
Define your avatar and work towards upgrading your avatar every single day.
A lot of gamers fall into the trap of using hacks and cheat codes to complete their objectives in the game.
Hacks are like shining objects that you think will make your life better but in reality, they make you worse.
In life, seeking a shortcut to success is a hack. They might get you the end result but you won’t get the skills needed to achieve those results.
When you work on your skills and take the full journey, it’s not just the success that you get in the end. You transform yourself. Your character changes. Confidence becomes part of who you are.
When success becomes a habit, you’re able to repeat the process and thrive in every journey of your life.